A year ago this time I was a pretty big mess in both my personal and professional life. I was confused and unsure of what I wanted in life and so over time I created all these rules to live by in order to stay focused and regret free. It actually made perfect sense in March of 2009 because I was dealing with a lot of changes and needed a lot of structure in my life. However, as I was thinking about my life right now, I realized that I am in a good place and some rules are meant to be broken! So what if I am not always doing “the right thing”? So what if I get carried away sometimes and make decisions in the moment? It’s not like I am some unstable person trying to find myself. I am happy with myself and where my life is going. I want to have some fun every once in a while, even if that means breaking a rule or two.